Ep. 32 Better Sleep for a Good Sex Life
In this episode, I talk about why sleep might be one of the most overlooked foundations of intimacy, connection, and overall well-being. The conversation around our latest mouth tape launch is deeper, than simply sleep. It's about how the way we care for our bodies, especially through rest, quietly shapes how we show up in our relationships.
I share my perspective on sleep as a core pillar of health, how it impacts everything from mood to desire, and why creating intentional evening routines can change not just how you sleep, but how you live and connect. This is an invitation to think about your nights differently. Not just as something to get through, but as something that supports the life and relationships you desire.
Ep. 31 You Already Know What You Want. This Is What’s Missing
This episode about one of the many layers I work on with my clients. The work I do with you can be done alone and this is one idea that we work on together- courage and gumption. Both are necessary when we’re growing, changing, and trying to build a life that feels like ours.
I talk about the difference between courage and gumption and how they work together. This isn’t about big, loud bravery. It’s about the quiet moments where you choose to listen to yourself, say the thing, take the step, or move toward something that feels uncertain. The life you want is often on the other side of those small, honest, courageous decisions and learning to trust yourself enough to act on them.
Ep. 30 Living Cleaner Without Overcomplicating Your Life
This episode is a mix of something simple and something deeper. I share a bit about my recent love for sourdough and how small, grounding habits like making bread can reconnect us to community, care, and intention in everyday life. I get into non-toxic living and what that looks like for me, but also in a way that you can take inspiration from if you're starting from the beginning.
I talk about what it means to live a lower-toxin lifestyle, why it matters for your health, and how to begin without trying to change everything at once. This is about simplifying, not adding more. It’s about making small, thoughtful shifts that support your body, your home, and your overall well-being.
Ep. 29 You Don’t Have to Wait to Start Your Next Chapter
This episode is a bit of a catch-up, but underneath it, it’s really about something deeper...connection, how we spend our time, and the moments that remind us what matters. I talk about a weekend with my best friend and how meaningful simple, analog moments can be. From there, I get into how I’ve been thinking about my next phase of life, what I actually want, and the realization that I don’t want to wait on certain things anymore. This episode is about noticing what feels good, honoring what you want, and being willing to move toward it even if it doesn’t look exactly how you once imagined.
Ep. 28 Your Values are Allowed to Evolve
This episode explores what happens when you go against your values. Because it’s something we all do. Instead of seeing those moments as failures or reasons to shame ourselves, I see them as signals. As moments that are trying to show us something deeper or something we might be avoiding, something that needs to shift, or that we are being asked to grow.
Most importantly I talk about how values aren’t meant to be rigid or perfect. They’re allowed to evolve as you evolve. And sometimes the moments where we feel the most out of alignment are actually the ones that bring us closer to understanding ourselves.
Ep. 27 How to Support Yourself When You’re Doing It Alone
This episode is about what it actually looks like to support yourself when you’re doing really big things alone. Not just enjoying solitude or choosing independence, but the deeper experience of moving through life changes, decisions, and responsibilities without someone right beside you. The kind of things we often imagine we’ll do with a partner, but end up navigating on our own.
I talk about the difference between being alone and feeling alone, and how those two experiences can show up very differently depending on what you’re going through. This is also about learning how to hold yourself through those seasons. Finding your “why,” creating space to process your emotions, knowing when to lean into solitude, and when to lean on the right people. It builds something deeper in self-trust, confidence, and a kind of quiet resilience that only comes from living it. If you’re in a season where life feels big and you’re carrying a lot on your own, this episode is a reminder that you can do it. One step at a time. And that supporting yourself is something you can learn.
Ep. 26 The Small Wins That Change Everything
You get a lot of life catchup in this episode, but this episode is also about creating small, intentional wins in your life that help you feel supported, especially during seasons that feel heavy. When bigger parts of life feel out of your control, these smaller, self-created moments of progress can shift your energy and rebuild your confidence.
I talk about how to identify what a “win” actually looks like for you, how to make it realistic and attainable, and why these gentle, consistent efforts can change the way you move through your days. This is a reminder that success doesn’t have to be big or loud, it can be something you create quietly for yourself, one small step at a time. We need to remember how much control we have over our own lives and sometimes creating these moments makes all the difference.
Ep. 25 Spring is a Time to Reset & Recalibrate Your Goals
This episode has a lot of personal updates, but then we get into the meat of the episode. It's is a reminder to pause and realign with what you actually want this year. Spring brings a different kind of energy than January, one that makes it easier to move, take action, and reset what may have felt unclear or unfinished. I talk about revisiting your original intentions, clearing space in your life both physically and mentally, and getting honest about what you’re building right now. This is about creating momentum again, setting goals that feel aligned, and letting this season be the time you step back into your life with clarity and intention.
Ep. 24 Sharing My Cancer Story Like I Never Have Before
In this episode, I share the story of my cancer journey like I never have before and how a season of being really sick changed the way I see my life. It’s not just about the experience of illness, but what it was like in the process and what it gave me on the other side. A different relationship with time, a deeper awareness of how I want to live, and a much stronger pull to stop waiting and start choosing what actually matters. This is a reflection on how something hard can quietly reshape everything.
Ep. 23 The Balance Between Being Alone and Being Deeply Connected
In this episode, I talk about the balance of deeply valuing alone time and relationships. The part of me that needs solitude to think, reset, and feel grounded, and the part of me that values deep relationships and meaningful connection. These sides seem opposite, but for me, they actually support each other.
We also talk about why it matters to feel comfortable in your own company. You don’t have to love being alone in the same way I do, but there is something really powerful about learning to be with yourself and trust yourself.
Ep. 22 Why You Should Go Solo Camping At Least Once
I’m talking about solo camping, but really going through why I love it and why I think everyone should experience it at least once in their life. It's not about becoming “a camping person,” but because of what solo camping teaches you about yourself.
Solo camping challenges you. It puts you in a position where you have to trust yourself, rely on yourself, and sit with yourself without distractions and noise getting in the way.
Key Points:
Why doing hard things builds real confidence
The difference between being alone and actually enjoying your own company
Letting go of constant self-awareness
Learning you need less than you think you do
Romanticizing your own life
The kind of self-trust that comes from showing yourself you can handle things
It’s about becoming the kind of person who trusts themselves, challenges themselves, and knows they can handle more than they think.I talk about creating new meaning from something old, what it felt like to give a meaningful piece of my past a new life, and how that first trip shaped the intention I now carry into it every spring.
But this episode isn’t really just about the desert. It’s about finding your places, your rituals, your moments and the things that bring you back to yourself. The things that calm your nervous system, ground you, and remind you what it feels like to be home in your own body. Because we all need those things.
Ep. 21 Desert Reflections and Finding Home Within Yourself When You are Away from Home
I just got back and am reflecting on my annual solo desert trip. It's something I started during a really hard season of my life that has now become a ritual I return to every year. Not to escape, but to reconnect.
The desert, for me, is one of those places where everything quiets enough that I can actually hear myself again. Where my body settles and I remember who I am.
I talk about creating new meaning from something old, what it felt like to give a meaningful piece of my past a new life, and how that first trip shaped the intention I now carry into it every spring.
But this episode isn’t really just about the desert. It’s about finding your places, your rituals, your moments and the things that bring you back to yourself. The things that calm your nervous system, ground you, and remind you what it feels like to be home in your own body. Because we all need those things.
Ep. 20 Are You Living the Life You Actually Want
In this episode, I talk about the quiet courage it takes to actually live the life you want. We like to believe that we make decisions for ourselves, that we follow our instincts and choose the paths that feel right. But when we look closer, many of us are making decisions based on expectations, pressure, or what makes the people around us more comfortable.
Ep. 19 How to Know When a Relationship Is or Isn't the Right One For You
In this episode, I talk about one of the hardest questions we can face in our lives: how do you know when a relationship isn’t the right one for you anymore? These are some of the hardest, but also most important decisions we make. It's about choosing ourselves, following our hearts, and doing hard things even when they are right. I explore the difference between deciding if a relationship is right versus deciding when to leave, and why making that choice often comes from looking deeply at yourself.
Ep. 18 What Solo Travel Can Teach You About You
I reflect back on my 8 week solo trip to Europe and how travel can teach us about ourselves. Why it felt less like a vacation and more like necessary medicine for my life. How traveling alone helped me reconnect with parts of myself I felt disconnected from. I share how solo travel can be a fast track for self-discovery, self-respect, and actually doing the things you say you want to do “someday.”
Ep.17 How to Recognize The Difference Between Obligation Sex, Generosity, and What is For You
I’m answering a listener question: How do you tell the difference between sex that’s coming from true generosity and sex that’s actually coming from feelings of obligation, people-pleasing, or self-abandonment?
Ep. 16 I'm Explaining My Health Routine and A Little History
In this episode, I'm walking through what my health routine actually looks like right now. I share a bit of my backstory and health history from growing up around home-cooked food, later dealing with psoriasis, thyroid cancer, and other health issues.
Ep. 15 You Have to Be the First to Believe in Your Vision
The heart of the episode is this idea that when you’re building something new (a business, a body of work, a creative project, a different version of your life), there might not be anyone else who fully gets it.
I share why you have to be the first one to believe in your vision, and how to show your vision love the same way you would a person, a relationship, or a plant you want to see thrive. We talk about living as if your vision is already true, making small daily progress that add up, and learning to love solitude so your ideas have space to grow.
Ep. 14 Curiosity is One of Your Greatest Tools
I talk about curiosity not just as a cute, childlike trait, but as one of the most powerful tools we have as adults—for self-growth, relationships, conflict, and emotional resilience. We explore how curiosity helps you become less judgmental, more open-minded, and more tolerant, and how it can soften defensiveness in hard conversations. I also share practical ways to practice curiosity—on your own, with strangers, with kids, and especially with your partner when conflict comes up.
If you’ve been wanting to react less, understand more, and navigate hard things with a little more grace and softness, this episode will give you a lens to do that.
Ep. 13 Analog as a Frequency to Live By
I talk about how analog has been showing up as a theme in everything right now, even in how I thinking about relationships and intimacy. This isn’t about going off the grid (not that I'm opposed), or buying record players, or rejecting modern life, it’s about choosing a different way of existing. I explore analog not just as a nostalgic aesthetic, but as a frequency…a way of being that’s slower, more intentional, and peaceful.
You'll hear about how the idea of analog has been inspiring my work and why I believe analog living is one of the most underrated tools for nervous system regulation.